Arranged marriage - hayden

   Are arranged marriage's positive for those involved? Should parents arrange marriages for their children and what are the advantages and disadvantages? From my point of view, I disagree with it, because parents don't know what their children want and they will not be happy too if they are forced into a "blind marriage". Besides that, they probably will grow apart from the parents after a long time for what their parents done for them.
   First of all, I think parents shouldn't arrange marriage for their children because most of parents don't know what type of girl that their children need as a wife for the rest of their life. In fact, parents don't know what their children thinking about althought having a blood relationship. In general, parents are in charge of all the house things but not of everything. The children future, marriage and other issues, for instance.
   Secondly, I believe that children wouldn't be able to be happy forever with their families if they had a " blind marriage". According to most of chinese ancient continuum movie, children probably will get divorce to each other after a " blind marriage" go on a long time. Besides that, children don't have any feeling with their wife/husband, eventhough affection can be cultivate, yet if a couples don't have any feeling at the first time that they met, they definitely will get divorce I guess, for example.
   Alternatively, some peoples think that arranged marriage is really work and good and parents should help their children to prepare their future means to find a good girl or boy. It is because lots of teenagers are very shy and don't have courage to meet even a girl or boy. According to some movies that I saw, perhaps they will meet a girl or boy that they have feeling to each other. In addition, most of the parents probably won't make a false change against for their children. Moreover, If parents arranged marriage for their children, their relationship will be even better that what we can imagine, means that, they will have a peaceful families.
   In conclusion, althought arranged marriage have got some good side and I see what it is getting at and I reckon too, but I still turning my blind eyes and persist what I am saying " blind marriage" is not the true love.